#systems against endos

[monochromettv]

Magenta's Intro

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Hi!!!!! I'm Magenta! My posts will usually use the color pink for the text and I LOVE stylizing everything!

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˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ I'm currently the only system member other than Monochrome(main host) to have a Pronouns Page

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ I also have my own page on Artfight

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Our system has a running joke of calling me a lesbian because of my (not actually my)wife, Vic

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ I like to call my partner wife even though we aren't actually married

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ I enjoy talking about the system, headspace, and the various functions my headmates have

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ SucculantSystem's Dark Lord and Chosen One are my best friends!

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ I am Aceflux, Poly(closed), Recipromantic, Demigirl, and techically Lesbian(Though I refer to myself as Gyneromantic to avoid drama)

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ My system roles include Traumaholder, Betraynoid, Welcomer, Identifier, Castigated, Fallback Host, Alter Assignment, Speaker, and Safeguard || Thank you to CDD System Terms for the recoined and invented terms!

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[d1rlin]

Ah shit here we go again

Let's repeat with me mls, you can't be a system w/o trauma. Why r y'all tripping? Can't y'all do research?

[sirenium]

'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:

[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]

[yourfavisosddidcoded]

Hey guys daily reminder to be careful with what you share on the internet in regards to mental illness.

[anti-rq-raccoon]

what is and isnt rq <3

to educate people who thought like me, and were confused.

what ISNT radqueer:

objectum

endo systems

mspec mono

lesboys/tutgirls

radinclus

recovering paras

therians/transspecies/otherkin

what IS radqueer:

glorifying any of these:

maps

zoos

harmful transIDs (transabuser, transharmful, etc)

any other actively harmful identity

[steaming-system-takes]

A lot of endos are genuinely in very sad situations. Was scrolling endo and radqueer tags with a friend to laugh at them because some of the coined terms get so specific it's funny and we came across a flag for "NEETgenic system." Looked up what NEET means and it's "Not in Education Employment or Training."

That is isolation induced psychosis. Humans are social animals. When we are isolated for too long our brains get sick. That's what happened to this person.

Endos are harmful. Many are wearing disability as a silly costume. But some of them are systems who don't realize they have trauma or are experiencing psychosis and we need to remember that

This is not a steaming take post.

I'm only posting this because it's something we've seen a lot of people in the anti endo community doing and it needs to be talked about.

Diagnosing endogenic systems with psychosis isn't something that you have the authority to do, nor is it helpful for anyone.

I don't care what your reasoning is or how many connections you're making. Blanket diagnosing even majority of a community like this is not okay even if you have good intentions. By assuming that a large majority of endogenics and the like suffer from psychosis, you are actively harming traumagenic systems who also suffer from psychosis.

This anon isn't meaning it in a negative manner, I'm very aware of that. But even with whatever logic you may put into it, you're attempting to diagnose some random person/people on the internet that you don't know at all. And let's be honest, the whole "endos are just people with psychosis" trend only feeds the stereotype that people who suffer from psychosis are completely 100% delusional and are entirely unable from telling the difference between their delusions and reality 24/7. Which, as you would guess, isn't true.

Can we please stop trying to "one-up" endos while harming an entire community in the process. Please.

-Kaito

[curekirin]

Something i want a genuine answer to if anyone can give one. A pretty long rant is ahead so read more at your own discretion.

Why are people so outwardly, vehemently against good faith and mspec labels?

I see it everywhere. I see people casually spewing hateful things towards multigender, mspec, and intersex people without even thinking about it. I see so much intersexism hidden under the guise of “anti mspec” or “anti good faith”. I see so much infighting over terms that i’m willing to bet 90% of the people who are against them don’t actually know what they mean.

Lesboys are not just male lesbians. Turigirls are not just female gays. Gaybians are not just bisexual. There is so much more grey area to these terms, as there is with MOST queer labels.

If you’re against transmasc/transmale, masc, butch, multigender, or even intersex lesbians, then please ask yourself why. Is it because you believe they’re lying about their queerness? do you think they’re just “confused” and should be using another label? do you think lesbians are only women who love women? Because all of those beliefs are inherently wrong and harmful.

Most of these ideas come from bigots themselves, usually radfems and transmeds and terfs of all kinds. These ideas were purposefully created to seem logical, when actually they’re just ways of excluding certain people from the queer community.

I do not care if you think men can’t be lesbians. Because actually anyone can identify as whatever feels good to them. Policing and attacking people purely for their identities is bigot shit. That’s what terfs, transmeds, transphobes, homophobes, and every other group that aims to silence queer voices wants to do too! and they don’t just want to police lesboys and turigirls and all those “confusing” labels, they want to police yours too! they want to force you to become as palatable to them as possible, preferably convincing you to just become cishet and forget you were ever queer to begin with.

Why are you, as a queer person, attacking and belittling identities you don’t understand simply because you dont feel like stepping outside your comfortable bubble? Are you, perhaps, agreeing with the bigots? Do you side with them in any other instances? Ask yourself that. And seriously think about it.

[aether-amalgam-system]

I love you hive mind systems.

I love you systems with naturally good internal communication.

I love you systems who are light on the inner conflict.

I love you headmates that date other headmates in the same system.

I love you systems who are going for functional multiplicity in their healing journey.

I love you systems who love their systems.

I love you systems who get fakeclaimed for loving their system.

I love you systems who think they don’t fit in with the rest of the system community because they love their system.

ENDOS DNI THIS ISNT FUCKIN FOR YOU BITCH /srs

[arrayoflightarchives]

Hate having to block some of anti-endo tags sucks but on certain ones (especially used by those who are more harsh in their beliefs) just end up being straight up harmful and ableist

We don't get into sys course much so please don't bring that here, we don't want to be involved, it just sucks seeing these people that are against misinformation (aka misinfo spread by endos) and yet are spreading so much misinformation by saying shit like

"endos are delusional" "they need to be checked into a mental hospital"

Like yes we know that endos spread harmful misinformation, but being so harsh about it only causes more problems because they will get defensive and more set in their belief that they are right because you are telling them that they are wrong

Just stop being so harsh on them and stop being fucking ableist about it, you're allowed to be upset and angry at endos but don't be ableist and harmful about it...

[timetravelrocks]

rhetorical question here what's the syscourse stance for "endogenic plurality and dissociative disorder systems are two completely different experiences and thus should not be compared to one another"/"endos in theory CAN exist but shouldn't be within CDD circles and vice versa unless explicitly allowed by all involved"

normally we'd stay away from this sort of topic but i (⛓️) feel that syscourse is so focused on comparing these two experiences that shouldn't be compared in the first place? probably falls into the "neutral" umbrella, as does this blog, but... i don't know. it feels like the possibility needs to be brought up more. if we weren't so dissociated right now, i would go on a longer rant explaining exactly what i mean. maybe i'll get to that later (presuming any of us remember to do so)

syscourse interactions are allowed on this post specifically

[lil-toastie-boi]

may i ask genuinely why people think its not bad to be looking at endogenic systems and saying "youre not a system, youre always faking" like...i thought we didnt like fake claimers??? if they say theyre a system im gonna believe them cuz im not an asshole???

[noodles-in-the-sink]

I’m supposed to be asleep right now, but I think everyone should see my attempt at playing Hermit and being blink predicted BY A BOT IN QMS

[theswiftheartsystem]

Tw: ableism against people with NPD, and discussion of abuse.

I can’t believe a account made a post “calling out narc abuse“ put us as a account to block 😭

anyway, will say it loud and will say it until the very end,

NARC ABUSE ISNT REAL. YES PEOPLE CAN BE ABUSIVE WITH ANY MENTAL DISORDER, BUT THAT DOESNT MAKE IT “[Insert Disorder] abuse”

All it does is hurt others (often other abuse victims, shocker)

Yes, it’s okay to talk about abuse, it’s ok to call out abusive people, but in no way is that an excuse to blame and villainize those with NPD.

To anyone with NPD, or any other disorder that gets the “[insert disorder] abuse” shoved onto it, I’m very sorry. Stay strong.

[shattered-system]

[mar-im-o]

I just find the argument that endos are making us look bad to singlets so annoying. Like newsflash we're gonna look bad anyways. the majority of psychologists don't even think trauma-based plurality is real. endos aren't helping or hurting our case they're literally just existing

[run-little-cheetah]

A reminder that I am very much anti-endogenic and I do not wish for endo systems or supporters to follow me pls! I do not support endogenic systems or any non-traumagenic systems as it is incredibly ableist by faking a mental disorder which is harmful to traumagenic systems.

I’ve had to block a few blogs recently due to them all being endo supporters so I felt that a reminder was necessary.

If you are not happy with how I view endos then please simply block me and move on. I asked you not to interact and therefore trying to argue with me is harassment. Thank you.